I have been doing a weird thing. I keep opening up Amazon and adding things to my basket. Mostly it’s stuff to teach with (I lecture in music) but I could certainly listen to most of that on Spotify or get the books from the library. It’s a yearning that just stops short of purchase, but totals a fair amount (around £65 at the last look).
Before I started this experiment I have clearly been wasting all this money on stuff I don’t need to buy. But I can’t seem to stop the craving for more. The basket sits there, with its tempting ware: things that I can buy to make me a better lecturer, more knowledgeable or even to just show off on my shelves. Despite knowing that these things are not satisfying in any real way, I still feel these strong emotional pulls. It’s something to do with lack and with wanting.
We use this stuff to fill a hole. To make ourselves seem whole. Even though buying some books and CDs could never even come close to fulfil this part of myself.
The basket sits there… I may delete it yet…
In other news, my shoes completely fell apart. I am going to have to buy some as I have nothing to wear to work! So I am headed off to buy some vegan doc martens. It’s a bit of an expense but better in the long run as they will not fall apart so quickly. I feel weird buying something. I had to buy some clothes for my kid and that felt weird too.